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01-29-2007, 03:02 PM
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sick of bluefish
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: TEXAS
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Now its my Mom
Hey guys, havent been around much lately.
I don’t know if you remember, but I lost my Dad to cancer a year ago this June, he was 64. My Mom moved up from Florida to live near us, my kids were great therapy for her. She finally closed on her place and was getting settled this past September when we found out she too has cancer. It was in the colon, and then spread to the liver. She had surgery after Christmas to have the tumor removed, she started to recover but has been going downhill rapidly ever since. The cancer has spread in the liver and now into the stomach. She is in a lot of pain and was admitted to the hospital this week. They need to hit her with chemo asap. After seeing what my Dad went through, she really wants to know what chemo will get her. We are still waiting to find out what the doctor is suggesting. Its just not looking too good right now. I just don’t want to see her suffer. She is 62 and just like my Dad, exercised and ate healthy all her life. It is beyond bizarre that they both had this within a year of each other.
I’m not a religious guy, but your thoughts are appreciated. I feel like we have been in a daze for the last 3 years, first my Dad and now my Mom. Thanks for letting me get this out!
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01-29-2007, 03:13 PM
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Wipe My Bottom
Join Date: Sep 2006
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i am so sorry to hear about your mom. i will definitely keeper her in my thoughts and prayers!
-b
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01-29-2007, 03:15 PM
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Keep The Change
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: The Road to Serfdom
Posts: 3,275
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T&P
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01-29-2007, 03:16 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: RockVegas
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RIJIMMY; my thoughts and prayers go out to your mom as well as you and your family. I too am currently undergoing chemo treatments and can tell you, it's not easy. I cannot offer you any advise as to the success of treatments in your moms circumstances as only her doctor, and you and she can decide that. I can say in fact that it's extremely important for her to have you and your strength to be her guidance and support. Be strong my friend.
I will be thinking of you.
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The future ain't what it used to be. --Yogi Berra
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01-29-2007, 03:27 PM
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Permanently Disconnected
Join Date: Nov 2002
Posts: 12,647
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rijim My thoughts with you. It's not fun. My dad is on the op table as I sit here.
Hope things work out.
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01-29-2007, 03:39 PM
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Certifiable Intertidal Anguiologist
Join Date: Feb 2000
Location: Somewhere between OOB & west of Watch Hill
Posts: 35,134
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Good luck & Godspeed to your mom. Be strong for your family and for her!
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01-29-2007, 03:44 PM
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BigFish Bait Co.
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Hanover
Posts: 23,392
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RIJimmy.....thoughts and prayers sent to you and your Mom....I wish you all the best. Keep your chin up!
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Almost time to get our fish on!!! 
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01-29-2007, 03:55 PM
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Calling Jon The Fisherman
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: The Sack Of Mass
Posts: 2,357
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 . It seems that no matter how careful you are... no matter how well you watch what you eat, drink, whether you smoke or not.... your chances of getting cancer are still high. They say 1 in 4 people will have a bout with Cancer. There has to be a common denominator....
I wish you and your family all the best... I truly hope all goes well.
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01-29-2007, 03:56 PM
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Afterhours Custom Plugs
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: R.I.
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T & P's sent, hoping for the best.
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01-29-2007, 03:59 PM
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Finally
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: FL
Posts: 7,181
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I'm sorry to hear this.
You have my thoughts and prayers.
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01-29-2007, 04:10 PM
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Uncle Remus
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Lakeville Ma.
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Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. So sorry. Tough thing to deal with.
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01-29-2007, 04:26 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: Plymouth, Ma
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T&P's, hang tough.
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01-29-2007, 04:58 PM
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Registered Grandpa
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: east coast
Posts: 8,592
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Sorry you and your family have to go through this,RIJ. That's alot to handle in such a short period. Hang in their and try to live one day at a time. Thoughts and prayers sent.
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01-29-2007, 05:31 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Cranberry Coast Gateway 2 Cape Cod
Posts: 4,143
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My familys thoughts and prayers are with you RIJIM.
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01-29-2007, 05:35 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Sep 2001
Location: Whitman,Ma.
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Thoughts and prayers are going your way
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I'm going where I'm going... 
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01-29-2007, 05:38 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2002
Posts: 22,805
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RI Jim, i'm so sad to hear of your mom's illness.
Hospitals can be such an embarrassing thing sometimes
and she'll need your strength in any event.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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01-29-2007, 05:39 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Feb 2004
Location: RI
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Thoughts are there my friend.
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01-29-2007, 05:51 PM
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What was that!?!
Join Date: May 2005
Location: East Kingston, NH
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sad reminder why every day means something. even if its not much of anything.
stay strong rijimmy..... be thinking of ya.
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01-29-2007, 05:56 PM
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Also known as OAK
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Westlery, RI
Posts: 10,369
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Jim,
Best of luck to her.
the Big C sucks big time.
Best to her!
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"For once I agree with Spence. UGH. I just hope I don't get the urge to go start buying armani suits to wear in my shop"
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01-29-2007, 06:28 PM
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Soggy Bottom Boy
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Billerica, Ma.
Posts: 7,260
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Sorry for your Dad and I will have your Mom and your family in my prayers.
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01-29-2007, 06:31 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Apr 2001
Location: Uh, in a spot....
Posts: 5,451
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Never lose hope, My thoughts go to her and your family.
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Why even try......... 
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01-29-2007, 06:39 PM
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Moderator
Join Date: May 2003
Location: Marshfield, MA
Posts: 6,267
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thoughts and prayers to you and yours Jimmy
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01-29-2007, 06:48 PM
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Hydro Orientated Lures
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Brockton,Ma
Posts: 8,484
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will pray for your Mom and your family Jimmy
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Belcher Goonfoock (retired)
(dob 4-21-07)
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01-29-2007, 07:07 PM
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DDG-51
Join Date: Mar 2002
Posts: 3,550
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Stay strong Man, T&P to your mom, you and family.
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01-29-2007, 08:05 PM
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Retired Surfer
Join Date: Dec 2000
Location: Sunset Grill
Posts: 9,511
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Jimmy, thoughts and prayers bud.
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Swimmer a.k.a. YO YO MA
Serial Mailbox Killer/Seal Fisherman
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01-29-2007, 09:01 PM
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Scuttlebutt
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Westport,MA
Posts: 2,427
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Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you.
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Wasajigifying -[ was - a - jig-i-fy-ing] - the concept of not knowing what the hell your saying.
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01-29-2007, 09:06 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Oct 2002
Posts: 3,594
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God, I hate reading stuff like this.
I am so sorry, I lost my mother at 62 years old so I can relate, My Dad also died 2 years after she passed.
I wish only the best for you and all your loved ones.
My only thoughts is that you should talk with her as much as you can.
Ask questions and remember all she has to offer.
Regards
VB
T&P sent
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01-29-2007, 09:12 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: Libtardia
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Jim hang in there- im really sorry to hear this. |
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01-29-2007, 09:37 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: On my boat
Posts: 9,698
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Very sad reading this!
Best wishes to your family
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LETS GO BRANDON
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01-29-2007, 09:43 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: RI
Posts: 21,231
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Thoughts and prayers coming your way...
-spence
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