maintaining control

[Raven]

it's not always an easy thing to do

and it takes a bigger man to keep from SNAPPING

and going completely postal on a bunch of creeps

that deserve to get their butts kicked all at once

with flying fists, kicks ,head butts ,and elbo's to the throat

i'm so mad and ready to do these guys that i can taste it.

most of them would go running for there very lives when they
saw anything not nailed down flying thru the air...

so instead i am trying to look at the bigger picture

and have hired one tough lean mean
fighting machine of a BRUTAL lawyer

and i'm going to sue for 10,000,000.00 dollars

if he thinks we have a good case.....

otherwise blood will spill....GRRRRRRRR

all pickin on my wife in unison...

they have no freakin idea how much of a SAVAGE
beast i can become in a matter of moments...

i am having all i can do to maintain my fortitude of peacefulness.

[Swede]

Heres a site I found in a book I just finished. It'll keep a lot of people reading for hrs. It has a commercial link, but it has nothing to do with fishing. www.nononsenseselfdefense.com

[Raven]

while the information in that link is most certainly useful...it is non applicable in this situation SWEDE because the current rules of conduct prohibit any such behavoir on either of our parts....it's more of a situation of where the companies policy is not being enforced and the imediate supervisor is of the same mindset as the rest of his boy's...many of which are from countries where the verbal and mental abuse of females is so prevalent within their society that it heavily influences their choice of behavoir.

[justplugit]

Keep it in the courts, Rav.

Anything else is just a whole new set of problems.

[Swede]

Good luck in maintaining self control Raven. Just the thought of someone treating my wife with disrespect would send me into a rage . A meat eating Attorney sounds like the best idea. Hope everything turns out well for you both!!

[Raven]

had to get the car fixed today and i got back so damned late i missed the attourneys call.....ahhhhhhhhhhh
my brake parts were absolutely crumbling only 500 more bucks
anyways he's handling my real estate stuff to so i'll be killing too birds with one stone...

don't worry DAVE and Swede - old age ...provides you the wisdom not to go off half cocked... and knock someone's lights out without provocation...

besides that there's always the deterent of meeting bubba's baby in the slammer.
see scuppers thread named "inner voice"

[Backbeach Jake]

I used to go off like Donald Duck on crack, til I scared myself and everyone else around. Came close to mass murder, and crossed several lines which shouldn't be crossed. But they got the message and I got a lesson. I try to behave now, but the buttons are still there.

[Nebe]

anger only empowers the person who makes you angry.

[Raven]

Originally Posted by Backbeach Jake

I used to go off like Donald Duck on crack, til I scared myself and everyone else around. Came close to mass murder, and crossed several lines which shouldn't be crossed. But they got the message and I got a lesson. I try to behave now, but the buttons are still there.

weally? you'll have to show me those buttons jake heh heh heh

Originally Posted by Nebe

anger only empowers the person who makes you angry.

and Nebe well said

now that my initial rage has subsided i will be speaking to the attourney so he is well informed enough to have our back just in case a legal
representation is required.

what you have to understand is....that i am not only caught between a rock and a hard place ... because i'm damned if i do and damned if i don't

take some form of preventative action.. because all that stress is coming home and transfering on to me...

and there in lies the frustration....of the whole situation.