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09-14-2012, 09:12 AM
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Not Jack
Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Other Cape
Posts: 1,239
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T&P needed
I just found out my mother passed away unexpectedly. Support needed in this time.
Please, if anyone has gone through the loss of a loved one and can help guide me through the necessary steps any advice through pms would be appreciated. I'm heading to PA now and will reply when I get a chance.
Take time today to tell those in your family that you love them. Too often we take these things for granted, and you never know if the next time will be your last.
Kevin
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09-14-2012, 09:16 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Cumberland, RI
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Sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and i hope you find the strength to make it through the days ahead.
Joe
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Good judgement comes from experience, and experience comes from bad judgement -- Keith Benning
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09-14-2012, 09:20 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Oct 2002
Posts: 3,595
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So sorry ,
Only time can help
God Bless
VB
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09-14-2012, 09:21 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: May 2003
Location: Easton, MA
Posts: 5,737
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I'm so sorry to hear this, Kevin. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
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Conservatism is not about leaving people behind. Conservatism is about empowering people to catch up, to give them tools at their disposal that make it possible for them to access all the hope, all the promise, all the opportunity that America offers. - Marco Rubio
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09-14-2012, 09:28 AM
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Is it May yet?
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Gloucester Ma
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So sorry to hear this Kevin. Thoughts and prayer to you and your family.
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"Twitch....Twitch....Twitch....WHAM!"
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09-14-2012, 09:29 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Pembroke,MA
Posts: 784
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Very sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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09-14-2012, 09:29 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: Libtardia
Posts: 21,692
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Oh man.. I'm so sorry.
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09-14-2012, 09:34 AM
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My brother is bald
Join Date: May 2003
Location: Parts Unknown
Posts: 4,516
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So sorry to hear of your loss. Ts and ps sent
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09-14-2012, 09:50 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: May 2010
Location: Pembroke
Posts: 3,343
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Sorry for your loss Kevin.
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Does your incessant whining make you feel better? How about you just shut the hell up and suck it up? It's a fishing forum , so please just stop.
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09-14-2012, 09:59 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Reading Mass/Newburyport/merrimack river
Posts: 3,748
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Quote:
Originally Posted by tysdad115
Sorry for your loss Kevin.
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Sorry for your loss kevin... the day after finalizing a nasty divorce...My mother went in for a tripple by pass and never left the operating room.. My father passed away a year latter after a 7 year bout with cancer.. I know EXACTLY how you feel.. you have my number.. if you need to go fishing/talk when you get back.. call. |
A good run is better than a bad stand!
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09-14-2012, 10:24 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Newport, RI
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Sorry for your Loss Kev. Man...
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09-14-2012, 10:34 AM
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Chris Blouin
Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Warren, RI
Posts: 3,330
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Kevin sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers sent.
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09-14-2012, 10:50 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: RI
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Sorry to hear. RIP.
-spence
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09-14-2012, 10:56 AM
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President - S-B Chapter - Kelly Clarkson Fan Club
Join Date: May 2005
Location: Rowley
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thoughts and prayers sent Kevin. Very sorry for your loss
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09-14-2012, 11:21 AM
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Oblivious // Grunt, Grunt Master
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: over the hill
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It is easier to face the world when you know there is someone out there who loves you no matter what. When your mother dies you lose that forever. I'm sorry.
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09-14-2012, 11:25 AM
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Jiggin' Leper Lawyer
Join Date: Oct 2000
Location: 61° 30′ 0″ N, 23° 46′ 0″ E
Posts: 8,158
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Sorry for your loss, Kevin. Right now it's a time for grieving her, and being there for the rest of the family. Those are the necessary steps of the here and now. Everything else can wait.
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Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools, because they have to say something.
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09-14-2012, 11:44 AM
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Red Eye Jedi
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: East Facing
Posts: 4,374
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so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine...
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09-14-2012, 11:45 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: marshfield
Posts: 3,620
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Sorry for your loss kevin
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09-14-2012, 11:55 AM
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Registered User
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: Hyde Park, MA
Posts: 4,152
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Remember that everyone grieves in their own way.
Some don't show it, some do. The best thing to keep in mind are all your fond memories, things she did to make you laugh, all those happy times. They will help make you strong, and get you through this trying time. Coming from an Irish background, when a friend or relative passed away we would have what was called a "mourning party" where everyone got to share their life experiences that they had with the deceased with others, and help to keep those memories alive.
There's nothing like a good strong shoulder to lean on.....even if it isn't yours!
T&P's for the peace and tranquility she rightly deserves.
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09-14-2012, 12:31 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: May 2004
Location: CT/RI
Posts: 1,627
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Very sorry for your loss.
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09-14-2012, 12:49 PM
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Certifiable Intertidal Anguiologist
Join Date: Feb 2000
Location: Somewhere between OOB & west of Watch Hill
Posts: 35,270
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Kevin - so very sorry to hear this. Big thoughts & prayers from all of us to you and your family.
I wish I knew some magic way or words to ease your burden.
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09-14-2012, 01:02 PM
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BigFish Bait Co.
Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Hanover
Posts: 23,392
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Kevin so sorry for your loss. When my Dad passed away......I honored him and the life he led by taking care of my Mom the best I could to see to her needs (not sure if your Dad is still with you) and by being strong for my family and seeing that he was laid to rest with honor and with love. I say this alot in times like this Kevin but keep the memories close to your heart....they will get you through it. Don't be afraid to laugh as folks reminisce about your Mom and the good times and do not be afraid to cry for the loss of your Mom. I am deeply sorry.
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Almost time to get our fish on!!! 
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09-14-2012, 01:13 PM
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Moderator
Join Date: May 2003
Location: Marshfield, MA
Posts: 6,267
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Sorry for your loss.
Be good to yourself.
T&P's.
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09-14-2012, 01:58 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: S. Yarmouth, MA
Posts: 1,604
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I'm very sorry for your loss. I too lost my mother rather suddenly, a little over a year ago. I keep pictures and things she'd given me over the years around, I think of her often, and mostly I keep living life in a manner she'd be happy and proud of.
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09-14-2012, 02:05 PM
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Old Guy
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Mansfield, MA
Posts: 8,760
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Kevin - my sympathies , remember the good times.
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09-14-2012, 02:38 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Apr 2001
Posts: 4,449
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Heartfealt prayers from Jess, Jack and I, Kevin. Call me if you have time to talk. Be home after 6 tonight and around all day tomorrow.
Rick
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09-14-2012, 02:43 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Somerset Ma
Posts: 1,812
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T & P are sent from my family to yours. No matter how you look at it its not easy. Time heals but its tough to let time pass. When my dad passed I had some good friends step up to comfort me...it helps a lot. I stayed strong for my family but made myself sick holding it all in. Find a time and place to let it out, a good healthy release helps.
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09-14-2012, 02:44 PM
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Here fishy fishy
Join Date: Aug 2001
Location: Whoville
Posts: 2,266
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I'm sorry for your loss. Thoughts and Prayers are sent. RIP!
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09-14-2012, 02:55 PM
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Registered User
Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Sturbridge MA
Posts: 3,127
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Kevin,
Im really sorry to hear that. If you need anyhting dont hesitate to ask. Thoughts and prayers to your family. Tough times for sure.
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Everything is better on the rocks.
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09-14-2012, 06:58 PM
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Uncle Remus
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Lakeville Ma.
Posts: 14,773
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My condolences to you and your family
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"A beach is a place where a man can feel he's the only soul in the world that's real"
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